then my answer is the same as yours.
unless you can dedicate time and effort to this, you're better off keeping things to fantasy instead of reality.
however, i will leave some cute and simplified guidelines for you to consider
imgur.com/gallery/1sO6Qalso
for your legs.
imgur.com/gallery/6zyj3GBsimply shaving them isn't enough to have 'nice legs'
you'll need to keep them clean and use some type of exfoliation to help the leg hairs from becoming ingrown or forming pimples.
in all honesty if your leghair isn't very thick or dark you could've left it alone, but I'm guessing this is to 'feel' feminine from an outside view.
other suggestions are
-grow out your hair: pretty obvious; longer hair lends to a more feminine appearance.
-clean up your face: just like your legs; exfoliate, moisturize, keep it clean. it's the one part of you people see the most. make it shine^^
-effeminate clothing: start with small things; socks, panties, maybe a nice undershirt and work your way up as you feel more bold.
and last but not least~
-get yourself a vibrator/dildo: not gonna lie. if you don't feel like doing any of the above, just treat your asshole like the slut you wanna be. it only really matters when your heart flutters, pucker twitches and you get a little tingle in your head, so...yeah.
anyways
goodluck!