Anonymous >> #210474
Posted on 2015-12-10 14:34:14 Score: -1 (vote Up)   (Report as spam)
A direct hand swat lets the cheek absorb the blow. But, if you really want to be mean you'll slice your hand upwards so the palm glances along the skin and pulls upwards (you do a motion as if trying to waft a fart from her ass towards your face, but you let your palm connect with her ass while doing so.)

My gf likes spanking for pleasure and discipline. But, I found her doing dumb shit to get in trouble just to get a spanking (because she sometimes gets off on having an "upset spanking" where she feels she owes me her ass and I'm upset while spanking her). I caught on to her doing that, so I started altering my spanking styles to find the most unpleasurable spanking method possible. She hates the upward slice motion. It stings like a mother fucker according to her. So, now she's learned to fear discipline spankings...as it should be. A woman obeys you out of respect and fear. If she respects you, then she loves you, and she will first avoid upsetting you to lose your love. But, respect without fear means she will still decide your love isn't enough to keep her in line sometimes. But, the fear of the spanking is the secondary fallback. "Hmmm... I'm ok with him being upset for a while (ie: losing his respect)... but I don't want the physical punishment. It hurts too much!" If a woman just respects you but doesn't fear you, then she'll walk all over you. If a woman only fears you, then you have an abusive relationship. Like Machiavelli wrote in The Prince, you must be both feared and respected.

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