Feels like falling into shit... I'm not the type of guy most girls would desire but a simple peon. Any ways to feel more confident? I'd appreciate help from the ladies. ;3

Hey, I know what's sexy about a man. I'll try to help with 3 rules that should make you feel better about yourself, and how others (ladies included) feel about you. Now if you want fashion advice or hairstyles, I'd need to see you lol.

Rule #1: Stand tall. you are perceived by how you perceive yourself. Be confident. One can sense how someone feels about themself, and generally confidence without cockiness is a good thing to have. Even if you don't feel confident at first, keep trying and you eventually will.

Rule #2: Be yourself. Fake is failure. Never be someone you aren't. Even if pretending seems to work at first, in the long run it always falls apart. You won't like yourself if you aren't honest with yourself, trust me. Even if you're a gamer, wear that portal 2 shirt with pride! (Pride and self-honesty, as it turns out, helps with rule #1.)

Rule #3: Be active. Not just on the dating scene, but physically too. This sounds a little tired, but it's true: exercise and a healthy diet helps your mood and self-confidence (rule #1 again, see?) like no other. Exercise releases a miracle of chemicals in your brain, as does being out in the sunlight, so for added effectiveness, ditch any night-owl tendencies and don't lift weights in the basement. And, hey, that working out will make you more attractive on the outside too!

So there's your fabulously-upholstered-armchair psychiatry session for tonight! Best of luck, and if you need any help, I'm always around! <3 X

Damn... :o Do you have a psychiatric education or something? Damn...

To actually throw in an advice of my own - you shouldn't worry yourself with what others think of you (or potentially think of you, because a lack of self confidence normally leads to expectancy of "hate" from others which isn't always the case).

I appreciate the advice guys, but I'll try to give some accurate details. I do have a girlfriend, but she's so consumed by her fetish in Russians (I'm only native American, Irish, and Pacific islander.) I try to atract her with myself but she won't buy in. I fear that it's destroying my relationship with her and I don't want to lose her, she's a very sweet girl.

Native and Pacific Islander? Damn you sound hot. As opposed to my earlier longass post, here I can only offer a bit of help (the female mind is a mass of tangled webs even to me): if it's a "fetish" for Russians, ask if maybe sex playing with a fake Russian accent (provided you can pull one off) would be hot? Beyond that, if it's getting to the point your relationship feels strained and is hurting your self-image... Well, all I can suggest is doing things she likes, and/or doing random romantic acts. Valentines day is coming up, maybe splurge on a fancy dinner?

Hopefully someone with a vagina can help you more! <3 X

If only. Easiest. Money. Ever. I'm just several peoples GBF's, so I do a lot of fabulously-upholstered-armchair psychiatry. ^^

Haters Gonna Hate :3

Are you coming on to me? e.e

Quit hiding and help fix this... -_-

I appreciate everyone's help. Carry on with your Xbooru routines...

Flirting. Not coming on to. Totally different. XD



Well damn. That was both unexpected and unnecessarily public. Should've been PM'ed IMO blarity. And tyran, keep your chin up! Every storm runs out of rain! I'm around if you need a GBF to chat with. And that goes with everyone here! <3 X

You're fine, mate. I don't know you that well, but you can't be -that- bad. Just stand tall and let it all roll off like water on your back. Take a trade or hobby, it'll keep your mind off of her and your hands off of yourself.

The outcome was entirely different. We're taking a break for the moment. I hope it lasts until Valentines Day, I'm looking to do something special for her.

The feeling's back... -_-
No love, no RP, no respect, no fun.
I'm living a shit-tastic life a the moment, all for nothing but no appreciation by other and just shit in my face...
I apologize if people are annoyed by this, but it's just depression. I have no options to help it but to sit back and think about how people made some stupid choices for me, flapping their lips that its better off leaving me, but no it's worse... Your fault, Blarity. :/ You didn't use your head and ended up nearly killing another person with high life expectancies, all because you couldn't of just calmly told me to let you be and grow some tougher emotions.

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